i cant put my finger on only one thing, i've came out a bad car accident with only a scrape on my knee (werent wearing a seatbelt at the time), had a bad motorbike crash and only damage was to the same knee but only a little bit buckled, from both i think i am lucky to be here at all.
few years ago i had nowt after a bad break up, now i have my own place with more toys than you can shake a stick at and have a very good mix of friends and social life
so all in all, life is very good, all i need now is a cleaner or a girlfriend, i think i know which one is cheaper lol