I agree with lots of the above. Members need to remember that the likes of Pele, Granby and others involved in organising events do it as volunteers and for the love of the club. There are enough stresses and strains in life without making our hobby one of them.
One of the reasons I joined Kent Scoobies was becasue of the write up on the front page of the website (I've just looked and it's not there now) but it mentioned events, bbqs and family days which all sounded like a cool chilled out club that likes to get together and enjoy itself.
Whilst I may not be one of the most committed members (due to a work/life balance!) I do enjoy the meets and the likes of Pele, Granby, Yogi, Trev and PD Tony (I don't wish to miss anyone out but I don't know everyones names) have always made me feel welcome. Others haven't been so friendly but it's a two way thing and I will put in the effort to speak to everyone in future.
It's good to sound off constructively so lets learn from peoples opinions and move forward united as Kent Scoobies.
Here endeth the sermon!