edmondo Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 2 Jobs being advertised - both going to be well paid - lots of work and stress however 1 is in Bournemouth and the other Southampton which means we will have to move - do I apply ( dont really want to move ) but fantastic for career or do I wait and see what next year brings?
kevlorn Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 big decision ed...............go with your heart mate...
edmondo Posted October 2, 2008 Author Posted October 2, 2008 thats it - not sure now what I wanna do - got till the 18th to throw my hat in the ring
kevlorn Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 south coast is nice..........closer to your parents but further away from sp's mum....................hate to be in your shoes........................ (they stink)
edmondo Posted October 2, 2008 Author Posted October 2, 2008 yeah they do .......................however its a decision I am going to have to try and be serious about - might not get it anyway however if I did is it what I really want?
kevlorn Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 only you and jaqs can answer that.......................
edmondo Posted October 2, 2008 Author Posted October 2, 2008 yeah - I was actually expecting a witty retort from you on that rather leading question lol
kevlorn Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 no mate,,,its a big/serious decision to make............ sp will tell you what to do..........................pmsl
pezza_no1 Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Wel i can highly recommend bournemouth, it's like my 2nd home. absolutely love it down there especially in the summer. However saying that it's a long way to come to the monthly meet at the Sun Inn lol
rae_sti Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 go for it ed . not trying to get rid of you honest gov
scooby princess Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 yea yea yea rae - just after my job!!! Nah i don't care if does want to go for it or not
kevlorn Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 maybe an ideal chance to change your life style..........................dont forget to take mum with ya though..
wimpy Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 It would be so easy to say go for it but then again you are settled where you are now. They say home is where the heart is. Your home is one thing your heart is another but your life is completely different.
kevlorn Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 rotfpmsl @ matty........................yep hungry as normal..
barbs Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 no harm in applying ed.. if you get offered either of the jobs, go and see what they are about! weigh up the pros and cons and go from there kind of in the same position with job decision, but dont have the worry of having to move! barbs
jd Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 this decision is not to be made on your own, needs discussion with family and friends. in this current financial climate, could be a huge risk.
scooby princess Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 he will be made redundant in a years time anyway - he has approached agencies in swindon already as he is fed up with the company - i would be lying if i said i would want to move as i have grown to enjoy swindon and i think the company he works for are just a ****ing piss taking bunch of ****ers who take, take, take and give nothing in return apart from a thank you now **** off!
jd Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 you both need to sit down and discuss this between you, not an easy decision to make. you will still be able to get in the car to visit alot of family & friends.
jd Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 you both need to sit down and discuss this between you, not an easy decision to make. you will still be able to get in the car to visit alot of family & friends.
edmondo Posted October 6, 2008 Author Posted October 6, 2008 Thank you all for your opinions - just sussing the the possible competition at mo - still got till the 18th to apply...................it would be the Southampton one I would be going for
edmondo Posted October 6, 2008 Author Posted October 6, 2008 Matty WRX said: what's your gut saying ed? well other than hungry!!!! Ah cheers Matty but just had tea mate lol parker1 said: rotfpmsl @ matty........................yep hungry as normal.. sorry Wideboy - did you squeek? lol
scooby princess Posted October 17, 2008 Posted October 17, 2008 Well, last night Ed decided to go for the position and so i updated his c.v so he had a better chance - It would be silly for him not to in the current suituation. We may have to move IF he gets the position and changes and sacrifies would need to be made but this was only the 1st hurdle of many. Im behind him in whatever choice he makes however i feel............
compo71 Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 Allways do what is best for your family................
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