No need to apologise at all, I didn't / don't take that kind of thing as an insult!! One of the biggest perpetuators of vehicle dynamics myths is peoples willingness to just believe what they're told rather than questioning it until they understand.
Unfortunately, the text is incorrect about the 50/50 torque split. This is and INCREDIBLY common misconception, so this is not necessarily a reason to disbelieve anything else that the book says. But I'll try to explain.
If you imagine a locked diff. The two shafts are forced to turn at the same speed.
Now.. imagine you clamp one of the shafts solid so it can't move. Now try to put torque through the other shaft.. results... zero torque is tranfered through the other shaft.
Now loosen the clamp slightly so the shafts just start to creep round a bit.. it would take very little effort at the other shaft to stop it turning. So you have a tiny bit of torque being transfered through that shaft, and lots through the one being clamped.
As you loosen the clamp more and more, you free up more potential torque at other shaft.
So.. if you take this example and say the fronts are on ice, and the rears on sticky tarmac, the front will not be receiving any real torque to speak of, but the rears will be transmitting all (or most) of the torque.
As you can see, the only way you could get 50/50 is if you happen to have equal resistance on the front and rear shafts.
Not sure if that explains it? Feel free to ask away if it doesn't
All the best
Simon