I just don't see why you couldn't have PM'd me first Graham72, then if I'd done nothing you could have put it up - I admit I did loose it a bit back there, but when you read your comments it seems very personal to me.
At the beginning of the year when I put the thread up about us being bigger & better, I genuinely believed that would happen, not knowing I would be fighting to keep my car and a few other things - yes I should have asked the others for help, but they say pride comes before a fall, and I fell, so what, we all live and learn - and I'm still learning to accept help when it is offered....